Be The Parent Your Kids Need &
Kids don’t come with a manual and if they did, it would probably be impossible to follow with our hectic modern lives.
Most of us can end up feeling ‘lost’, or parenting in the same traditional way we were parented, because we don’t know any other way. Raised voices, frustration and daily battles become the norm.
Without Conscious Effort, Our Parenting Methods Can Create Conflict Instead of Connection.
Heal the wounds you experienced as a child and break cycles so your children don’t have to
Trust yourself, prioritise what matters and drown out the noise to feel confident as a parent.
Build a secure relationship with your children based on love, understanding and connection.
No matter what your relationship with your child looks like right now, it can get better..
It doesn’t have to feel like such a struggle.
You’re not doing it all wrong. There is no one size fits all solution to parenting and the needs of every family are different.
None of us start off knowing what to do. We often begin with an idealised image of what family life is like or the type of parents we will be. It can be an impossible task living up to these expectations or a big disappointment when the reality is so different.
"Natasha is a real gem and immediately made me feel at ease and showed me there was no judgement - just love and support.
It would have been really easy to slip into remorse and regret…but Natasha helped me see that the important part was using the past to inform the present and future.
Working with Natasha was very empowering and gave me tools to deal with whatever came up…with the girls and in other aspects of life.
Reach out to Natasha because she will get you on a path that feels right for you and your children."
Parent of teenage daughters
"Before this (my house) was a nightmare…I was struggling massively. I felt really stressed and detached from my kids.
It’s made me much calmer and more relaxed…not just with the kids but generally.
(I) want to push myself more to achieve small little tasks which are making a massive difference overall."
Parent of under 8s
I often say becoming a parent was the BEST and HARDEST thing I’ve ever done!
Before my daughter was born, I thought I had it all figured out. I prepared all the practical things but never considered the emotional and psychological sides of parenthood.
I loved being a mum, yet juggling motherhood with the rest of my life meant I felt like I wasn’t succeeding in anything. And despite a bookshelf of parenting books, it was hard to implement their advice and be the mum I imagined.
Putting my career as a dentist on hold, I began a journey of discovery. I learnt about psychology, became a Master Practitioner of NLP, studied therapy, child development and behaviour. Before adopting our son, I went on courses about attachment and trauma and learnt how our early childhood experiences shape us.
Becoming a certified parent coach allowed me to bring all these disciplines together to do what I love and help others BECOME THE BEST PARENT THEY CAN BE.
I know how life changing it can be to heal the wounds we consciously or unconsciously carry into parenthood and break generational cycles. My training in NLP and Timeline Therapy supports me to help others work through painful past experiences and eliminate limiting beliefs so they can live the life they want.
I’m a passionate advocate for children and feel I can best help them by helping their parents. Through this work we can build secure parent-child relationships and nurture a resilient and capable generation of children.
Whilst sometimes challenging, parenthood is a blessing and an invitation to grow and evolve. I hope our journey together will be one of self discovery and personal development. So if you’re ready, so am I!
It makes you feel like you’re not doing a good job.
You're not a bad parent, nor do you have naughty children. You are doing the best you can with the knowledge and resources you have available.
The real issue is that we’re not taught how to be the kind of parents most of us long to be.
Which is why when you contact me you can expect understanding and non judgemental empathy. With openness and honesty, we can create a personalised approach, to support you and your family, because every family’s circumstances are unique.
Book a no obligation call with me, where we’ll talk about your family dynamics to get a sense of what’s going on and where I can offer help.
I’ll explain my approach and the options we have for working together. You can ask any questions you have and see what type of support would be the best fit for your life and schedule.
If it feels right for you, we then book our first session and get started! If it’s not a good fit, I will do my best to offer alternative resources or suggestions for support. There’s no pressure of any kind, simply an opportunity to see what is possible.
So that you can stop blaming yourself.
And instead take the first step towards becoming the kind of parent you know you can be and your kid needs.